KeithLard
Club President
Not at all.
I hate the judgementalism from some.
I also agree that it isnt a teachers responsibility to change nappies.
I feel, that because of financial pressures, its often the case that way too many children are farmed out to nurseries where, with the best will in the world, undertrained staff are left to deal with children in their most formative years. The years when thy most need that most personal contact with parents.
For me way too many are being dropped of 8 in the morning and then not seeing their parents face for at least 8 hours a day. When they do see them, more often than not, the parents are physically exhausted from a day at work also knowing that, aswell as the child, there are so many domestic duties that have to be done.
Of course its the parents responsibility to cater for ALL their childs needs, almost for life but there are now so many external pressures that bear down and put extreme outside pressure on that responsibility.
My own view, yup, old fashioned, is that in those formative years parents shouldnt have to feel the need for both partners to work full time, thats before even starting on the difficulties a single, working, parent suffers.
This aspect is only one a complete complex of supportive needs that a child has in its formative years that, again IMHO, can only be met by actual parental support in the home.
Pretty much bang on here.
We should all be able to live off a single wage, one partner brings in the money, the other rears the child during the day and keeps on top of the housework so that it doesn't become a huge issue in evenings and weekends.
However, society has allowed the cost of living to become ludicrously imbalanced. And for reasons I don't understand, the state provides school from age 4 and up, with maternity leave covering the first few months - yet leaves age 1-4 to be filled with nursery fees that are beyond most people's monthly mortgage costs quite comfortably.