You arent confused, you just dont want to change, thats the bottom line.
I get the impression we are around the same age so, why do I understand completely yet you remain unwilling to change?
The beauty of language is it continues to evolve. Perhaps some of us just dont.
I think I pointed out earlier how much change there has been during my nearly 70 years, and I am very open to change, but just where does this change come from?
I’m asking you to tell me just who and when was it decided that calling a person ‘coloured’ became a nono, and that anyone who is not white has to be now called black including people which are paler than most women who use suntan parlours.
They are not black, but if it’s based on being not white then how do suntanned Mediterranean people fit into this description because by colour they are then black but I wouldn’t like to upset them either.
I don’t think people from China or Japan would like to be identified as yellow, following the same principal.
In reality references to black or white or yellow or whatever would all be best binned and ethnic geographic identity be used to prevent anyone being upset or confused.